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How Estheticians Can Maintain Professionalism Even when Their Personal Life is In the Dumps!
- Fearless Esti
- Nov 29, 2023
- 5 min read
Updated: Aug 5, 2024
Have you ever had to go to work and put on a happy face but in reality on the inside you felt like everything was falling apart? Those days are the worstš„ So first off, I'm so sorry if you're experiencing that right now and that's why you googled up this article. You're not alone, and I promise this pit in your stomach will passā¤. But how do we get through the work day when we're in the midst of it all and we're doing everything we can to hold back the tears? As an esthetician, our role is to provide a comforting, relaxing spa experience to our clients. However, being an esthetician is not without its challenges. Like any profession, we face personal struggles that can sometimes affect our ability to maintain professionalism. Also, it's difficult not to blurt out and talk about our personal struggles with our clients since it's such an intimate and personal atmosphere. Although sometimes it is nice to be able to connect and share with certain clients.....One of the perks of our job I thinkš¤. So maybe as you can tell, I've been there. Those hard days hit everybody, where you just want to crawl back in bed and pull the sheets over your head and never come out. But we can't do that! The show must go on and bills must still be paid!
So How do we do it, Even when we feel we can't?
I've got a few tricks up my sleeve! First, we need to recognize how powerful our thoughts are! Every emotion or feeling is first created by a thought. We believe whatever we tell ourselves. Which is good news because that means we have some control over our feelings and emotions. It isn't easy to control our thoughts, it takes some practice but anytime you have a thought that doesn't make you feel good or starts to create some anxiety, redirect it to something positive. If I'm in a real funk, I conscientiously start counting my blessings and start naming off the things I am grateful for. Gratitude is the key ingredient to getting sunshine back into your mind. Push away all negativity! Negativity will never do you any good and it'll just make you feel awful. And Lastly, Choose Hope or Faith or whatever you would like to call it and remember and know that all things will work together for your good, even the "bad" if you can stay in a state of gratitude. Goodness will come even from our trials.
Understanding the personal challenges of an Esthetician
Being an esthetician requires a unique set of skills, but it also demands a great deal of emotional and mental energy. We are often the ones clients turn to when they need a listening ear or a shoulder to lean on. We may encounter clients who are going through difficult times, such as dealing with family or marital issues or health issues. Also, skin conditions that affect their self-esteem or experiencing the stress of a major life event. It is our privilege and I think one of our life callings to provide support and empathy during these moments, but it can take a toll on our own emotional well-being. In addition to providing support to others, we have our own personal struggles that we are trying to manage. In addition to the emotional challenges, estheticians also face physical demands. Standing for long hours, performing repetitive motions, and using various skincare products and tools can lead to physical discomfort and fatigue. Also, the pressure to maintain a flawless appearance ourselves adds an additional layer of stress. All these personal challenges can make it difficult for estheticians to separate their personal lives from their professional ones, potentially affecting our ability to maintain professionalism and our composure.
The importance of maintaining professionalism
Maintaining professionalism is crucial for estheticians as it establishes trust, credibility, and fosters a positive working environment. Clients rely on us to provide expert advice and guidance in skincare and in our other services. They also rely on us to make them feel comfortable and secure.
Professionalism and kindness is essential in building strong relationships with colleagues, clients, and other professionals in the industry. By maintaining professionalism, we contribute to a supportive and respectful community within the esthetician profession.
Balancing personal and professional life as an esthetician
Finding a balance between personal and professional life is crucial for maintaining your physical and emotional health as an esthetician. It is important to create boundaries and establish clear expectations for both ourselves and our clients. By doing so, we can ensure that we have the time and energy to meet our personal needs while still providing exceptional service to our clients.
Strategies for managing personal challenges
Self-care and prioritizing mental health: Taking care of ourselves is paramount in managing personal challenges. This includes practicing self-care activities such as exercise, meditation, and hobbies that bring us joy. Additionally, seeking professional help, such as therapy or counseling, can provide valuable support in managing stress and emotional well-being.
Setting boundaries with clients and colleagues: Clearly defining boundaries with clients and colleagues is essential for maintaining balance in the esthetician industry. This includes establishing appropriate communication channels, setting realistic expectations, and knowing when to say no. By setting boundaries, we can ensure that our personal lives are not compromised, allowing us to be fully present and focused on our professional responsibilities.
Seeking support and resources for personal challenges: It is important to remember that we are not alone in facing personal challenges. Speaking of.....Join my Exclusive Money Making Lash Artist Group for daily inspo and connection to other estheticians and Lash Artists! Seeking support from trusted friends, family, or support groups can provide a valuable outlet for sharing our experiences and receiving advice. Additionally, there are numerous other resources available within the esthetician community, such as online forums and professional organizations, where we can connect with others who may have faced similar challenges.
Continuing education and professional development: Investing in our professional growth can help us stay motivated and inspired, even during challenging times. By attending workshops, conferences, and industry events, we can expand our knowledge, learn new techniques, and connect with other professionals. This continuous learning can not only enhance our skills but also provide a sense of purpose and fulfillment in our careers.
You've got this and you're not alone!
Being an esthetician is the best Profession in the world in my opinion, but it is not without its personal challenges. By understanding these challenges, managing our thoughts, and implementing strategies to maintain our personal and physical health, we can navigate the delicate balance between our personal and professional lives. Remember to prioritize self-care, set boundaries, seek support, and invest in continuous learning. By doing so, we can not only provide exceptional service to our clients but also create a fulfilling and sustainable career as an esthetician and really make a difference in the world. If you are an esthetician facing personal challenges, remember that you are not alone. Reach out to your colleagues, seek support, and take steps to prioritize your well-being. Together, we can succeed while navigating the complexities of our personal lives. Again, don't forget to join my Exclusive Group so we can stay connected and support one another on our Esthetician Journey!
Cheers!
Theresa Mae
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